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Posted by Jules on July 25, 2010

Let this be the last and final angry post.

What makes a bad boyfriend. In no particular order:

~ One who cries crocodile tears just to win you over.

~ One who lies his way to get you soft-hearted and trust his sincerity.

~ One who keeps you hanging on when he just doesn’t feel it anymore.

~ One who controls your impromptu activities to the point that you are forced to bluff.

~ One who tells you that he hates a girl who smokes, drinks, and clubs, when he knew from the start that you do.

~ One who insults your hobbies/ interests/ activities, just because he doesn’t understand it.

~ One who does not support and/or encourage you when you’re at your lowest moments.

~ One who calls you crazy when you cry during your lowest moments.

~ One who absolutely refuses to meet any of your friends and/or family.

~ One who gets upset at you when you don’t fight against your parents to project his ‘good’ image.

~ One who doesn’t accept you as who/what you are and tries to mould you into something that he wants.

~ One who makes you cook for him even when you don’t really feel like it.

~ One when asked, keeps on says “anything” or “whatever”, then complains about not getting the chance to have his way.

~ One whom you can’t rely on to help you with something important.

~ One who gets mad at you when you get upset that he’s unreliable.

~ One who asks you to give wake up calls, then get mad for being awaken up, and doesn’t wake up until several hours later, and gets mad when you get upset that the wake up calls are pointless.

~ One who sleeps throughout the day when you’re supposed to be spending time together, and gets upset when you wake him up so that you could do something together.

~ One who, during an argument, drives off when you stormed off to walk alone in the dark streets during the late night.

~ One who completely ignores you as though you’re invisible during a conflict.

~ One who then uses profanities on you when you argue.

~ One who plays computer games and disregards you when you cry by his feet.

~ One who refuses to say anything when you argue in person, but sends you a whole load of toxic texts after.

~ One who keeps you in hiding from his family but expects you to have the guts to get out of the room and introduce yourself.

~ One who never properly introduces you to his friends and family. They must be psychic to know your name.

~ One who wants to get a pet, asks you to go fetch it, and then disregards it and makes you in charge of taking care of it.

~ One who loses his temper directly at you in front of all his relatives during his birthday party.

~ One who calls you stupid when you accidentally did something wrong.

~ One who says ‘I love you’ when you know he doesn’t mean it.

~ One who doesn’t see the changes you make about yourself just to make him happy.

~ One who borrows money from you.

~ One who makes you swap belongings for his own benefit, and gets upset when you protest/disagree.

~ One who doesn’t take care of your things when you willingly lend it to him.

~ One who breaks up with you by text/msn.

And more! Now…

What makes a bad ex-boyfriend. In no particular order:

~ One who tells his friends that his decision to break up was because of your parents objection.

~ One who blocks you on Facebook when he should’ve went straight to the delete button.

~ One who tells you that you will be ‘friends forever’, and then disappears himself.

~ One who confronts you over your trashing about the things he has done you wrong with.

~ One who hurts you further by telling you all the goodness about his new girl and how you don’t even qualify to be compared.

~ One who laughs at you for still being obedient to your parents and believing that they matter the most.

~ One who tells you that you should physically look like a typical girl (long hair and skirts), or else no man would want you.

~ One who still has the nerve to pick on the wrongs that you have done when they don’t even match up to the wrongs that he has done.

~ One who shamelessly shows off stuff when you’re not even interested to know.

~ One who tells you that you are a nobody who means nothing.

And more!

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