This post is dedicated to 3 different males who stumbled into my life. Good and bad way.
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Mr R:
Why did you even show up in my life, shower it with sweet lies, only to wreck it and tear me apart? You gave me the experience of the most miserable relationship ever. Sure it was nice, but too bad it wasn’t sincere. On your part anyway. Did you really think I suspected nothing? I was just hoping that I was wrong about those red flags. I should’ve just listened to my gut instincts and save myself from all the hurt that you have put upon my fragile heart. After all you did, you still talk as though the fault was all mine. Seriously, you are absolutely completely heartless. Despite your deadly poison, I’m glad I can emerge as the “phoenix” I hope to be and managed to pull through and become my true self that you never did accept (fuck you). And here I say to you, Mr R, good riddance! I’m normally not this mean, but YOU, my devil’s ass of a “friend”, can go die and rot in fucking hell. Heard of karma? You. Will. Pay.
Mr D:
Aiyoyo, ah boy. Up til the end also you don’t seem to wake up and realise. Didn’t you make me your “sister” because I make sense? Why did you have to make it weird by making it obvious that you had a huge crush on me just because I cared lol. I’ve been there, done that. I could see that it was not real, why couldn’t you just stop and listen when I say that you’re still young? Responding badly by saying that you’re old at age 25 with a bunch of irrelevant and illogical explainations just proves just how young I think you are. Quarter Life Crisis, remember? I thought I told you. There’s so much more to life and the world than just finding a life partner to settle down with. Open up your baby boy eyes and just freaking SEE it, will you? Oh, and to go off topic and bringing up my dog, my dad, and religion? That offense was so not cool, kid.
Mr C:
You still linger on in my mind all the while. I was in denial of it because I was so determined to get over it. Oh, I was so so young. I’m still somewhat very young. In the sense that I don’t know what to do. Or maybe I’m mature enough now that I’m afraid of the consequences, therefore holding myself back. Sometimes I miss you to the point that I question myself about why I did what I did. It seemed like the best idea at the time, but now I’m not so sure anymore. Our memories are still strong in my mind, I can’t deny. I just want you to know I’ve always wanted to know how you’re doing, but was too egoistic to ask you myself. At least I finally admit and broke the ice. But how much do I have to hint for you to initiate something? I’ve been having one thought since a long time, and that is “How come you don’t come look for me?” I didn’t know what to expect if you did, but I wished you did anyway. Sigh.
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Some things I go through in life huh? Lol. Way to go, Quarter Life Crisis! Way to go, Universe! XD
Posted under Thoughts & Feelings
please remove my name out of this… i’m not even part of ur ex’es to begin with.
enough of throwing fire at me when i’m already outta ur life.
i knew something lidat was coming. Ask urself first why this whole mess started.
and another thing, please stop saying others as kid. For the first time in my life someone saying it so much is clearly not right. you might think so just bcoz im younger but tht doesnt mean the whole world agrees with u.
bringing out those topics might have clashed with what u wanna talk about but doesnt make the other person look small at all. you could just say properly not to touch such subjects.
u think u are always right and i’m wrong, that’s ur problem. wake up girl. Are u gonna be like that all the time to others as well? just becoz they’re younger? what if one day they rise up to be ur boss or manager tho younger? what are u gonna say that time?
u say i am pathetic, young and not cool, kid as well. What about u? have i ever say a word criticising u? I rather keep them to myself coz to really criticize someone is such manners is truly considered uncool, pathetic and kid. I rather keep those to myself and learn to communicate that with u in a more discrete and indirect manner.
you shooting out such poisonous words, do u even think it would affect me? or would it rather give a worse impression on u? c’mon grow up when u are a year older than me.
u wanna start a flame of words here? fine by me. I had enough of all this with you.
ermm guys… im not siding anyone… but david you dont have to admit it was you here
because she dint really put your name on it. just forget it.
no one is perfect. i also have my own flaws..
AS A FRIEND IM SAYING THIS , hope you read finish it
julie this also you need to read the 2nd paragraph
David, the part you acted like a kid. sorry to say sometimes kinda feel you are childish at certain times.
im your friend.. im not here to shoot you but. if you read this. i saying this as a friend.
honestly you are mature in alot ways, but the part about girls.. u acted childish. even for me im younger than u
this is not only I and Julie say. i heard that many many times from many people we know before this and those people mostly younger than you. but we just dont want to say it because we think its fine.
the relationship and friendship with some girls you faced.. we all faced it before when we in late primary and early secondary.we all grow up from it already. we cant expect everyone to be same.. so we dint even talk abt it.
we just said it once or twice wat we think and then we dint talk anymore. we think sooner or later you also will learn.
(this part is for in general )
i hope we all learn new things everyday or any event happen than fight back.
if someone says bad about you.. there is sure a reason why that few particular words were chosen.
think about it and see what had gone wrong and improve from it. rather than firing words back to other people.
This goes for other people who reading this also. hope this infomation helps in all of your future life.
I learn this not long ago. and i found out I did alot wrong in my life also. this infomation help me alot..
thats what i believe..
I hope i did not offended anyone.
I’m sorry if i did
anyway i dowan to see any fights because of this. Peace.
thanks clinston, that made more sense to me.
I know that I’m not perfect and may seem weak in that are now, but i’m doing my best to improve. If ppl go on shooting me and just plain criticizing, then I couldn’t see where I could see my mistakes and work on it.
probably jules have gave up and chose the bashing way, but I appreciate your advice. Thank you.
David.
*claps* bravo, Clinston
Wisest thing I’ve heard all week about relationships.
David, I believe she gave up talking to you nicely because normally she is patient type as i know
her for many years.
Now you could see what is not good in you, hope you could do your best to improve it.
let go of the ego in you and learn as much as you can.
For me i continue to learn my mistake from people and learn. Men have Ego is natural
but having to much of it causes the mind not willing to learn from anyone advice even you dint notice it.
Julie is much elder than me. but age dont matter. I believe me and her continue to learn new things
both of us are open to new suggestions and idea. That why me and her are like real brother and sister.
We did not put as for fun but we really think we are siblings.
Ikseh,
Dont have to say like this laaa. i just say what i think.. nothing wise or special about it.
we all continue to learn =)
Clinston, that’s why Im proud to have you as my newly pet bro although we still have so much to learn about each other =) In other words, you are a manager in making =D If you wanna know more of what I meant, msn me hahahaha
In life, we must learn to view any aspects of it in many different angles. Only in this manner, we are able to have a better perspective and judgment. Like I mentioned before “The Mind is like a parachute. It only works if it is Open”. Figure that out =) Open meaning being able to see and accept many aspects or variables about life - people, work, relationship etc and not be fixated with what the society wants you to believe. It’s very subjective but it’s doable and not impossible. Practise this, even a little, and you will see the difference. Simply, “Thinking Out of the Box” XD
For this issue, David..Ju. Here is my opinion. Not offense at any point. Please forgive me if I offended any of you both.
There is a reason why this issue arrised. Instead of focusing on the current situation, try looking at the root of the problem and solve it from there (if you still want to). I believe both parties have their contribution in this matter. As one will put it, “It takes two to clap”. Make “Compromising” and “Understanding” as your key to resolve this.
Life has been contributing enough headaches to us, why add more? XD
Be cool ya
Luv
Jocey
david,
ur “name” wasn’t even mentioned. and i was not even throwing fire at u in the first place. did our argument end up THAT severe that u think i had to trash about u? i feel insulted that u would even think of me that way. in my defense i have plenty of friends younger than me.
clinston,
thanks di, for understanding what kinda person i really am. yes i have ego too, like everyone else. at least i admit it and try to accept what other ppl say.
jocey,
lol i like ur parachute theory XD not like i didnt want to resolve the issue but i was beginning to see a pattern. just a “sorry” could solve everything? when it wasnt even clear what the “sorry” was for, then it repeats again, it’s a bit pointless. few times ady, enough la.
No point for me to say anything to u anymore jules. For me it seems you would always go a round just to point it back at me. It’s like roulette, never ending turn and never ending point where the dice could end.
One thing u should know, I do take what people say too, and I improve on it.
The way u wrote, the things u wrote bout me, as if I was using that “bro” thing to get closer to u just to go after you? Sorry, things just happen, feelings went out of the way, and you think I used that for the sake of going after you? No, why should I do such a despicable thing? I took you as a sis coz I cared that time for you. Dog, religion, dad… now what’s with that? I didn’t remember u telling me it’s offensive when i said anything that i said. So what’s with bringing it up now? What significance does it make with or without my name on it? The details and the “D” word is enough to prove it?
sorry? so now i’m being said that i made too many mistakes and sorry couldn’t help it.. when did I purposely did mistakes just to say sorry? enough? fine, let’s make it enough… it’s enough for me too.
David, she is like that because she been trying to tell you in many ways and stuff
you just dont want to listen until she gone mad and really want to shoot you. and David
you also need to control your feelings towards girls. Dont so easily like a girl because she care for you and you care for her. sometimes its just friendship. .not love.
And also try to control your words, you must understand women more.. go to library and read
i did told u about women and men are totally different. you cant talk to them or threat them like other men.
and u cant expect women to threat u like a men threat a men. thats why we HAVE MALE AND FEMALE!
when you read and know more.. i believe everything will make sense to you.
Maybe now you feel its dont make sense to you. but for all of us it did make sense. so go library and read
and learn about women. Then Girls will accept you after you do !
In your current situation and mind set. I believe even you want to make your girlfriend to be
the most happy girl in the world when you have 1. it will end up making them the most unhappy and frustrated girl in the world.
because you dont understand them even the basics but keep telling them you understand indirectly.
You want to make them happy but the things you do doesn’t. WHY? because you only think what you want
to do and not what they want you to have?
That is why when u breakup with someone or being rejected… you and that girl mostly no more friend.
while my breakups and rejection end up become good friends even for many years.. still friends.
You sometimes say things are offensive but you dint noticed it.. especially to girls
why? because you dont understand them at all…
If you do take people say… and improve it.. so why after years .. i still see the same thing with you
david? WHY the SAME OLD problem that u have been facing over and over again after so many years ??
WHY? WHY WHY? WHY YOU STILL FACE the problem and issues that normally people face during form 1 - form5 but then dint face it anymore after that graduate high school? BUt you still face it ?
YOU dont want to ADMIT ! in your heart you duwan to admit what is wrong with you !! You think you
are all good all the while !
THINK DEEPLY ! THINK LOGICALLY ! THINK what is the problem ?
WHY? HOW? WHAT? DELETE All the EGO and WHAT YOU THINK GOOD OF YOURSELF for that moment
and START THINKING !
STOP ARGUING WITH HER AND START THINK ABOUT YOURSELF FIRST !
Im not siding her but i still see no changes after my MSG.! YOU KEEP SAY YOU APPRECIATE my advice
but still nothing goes in your head !
IM sorry i need to be so dam straight foward because.. it see nothing going in your head
when i talk nicely.. I understand why julie get pissed ! SAME ! nothing goes in your head !
IM sorry david
Funniest bit for me in this issue. I’m sorry, I know it’s a serious matter, but I can’t help thinking - In a couple of years no one will even remember who said what to start this whole issue, and/or you’d be thinking, oh dear lord, did I just waste my energy/time picking arguments with people who could’ve been friends?
Because I already have this in my mind (personal experience here, and one I just snapped out of. Nothing to do with anyone, though may it shed some light :D)
Angel at the pearly gates: So, what did you do in your twenties?
Me: I don’t know. Nothing important. Let me think…Making mountains out of molehills, trying to prove myself so much to people when the only thing that mattered was for me to accept myself for who/what I am. Arguing over who’s right and wrong when it wasn’t really important to win those battles in the first place. WORRYING and FIGHTING so hard to be accepted by people when it didn’t matter. Doing everything in my power but love/be myself to have people like me, which resulted in them stepping on my head, and resulted in years and years of bitterness instead of living life in the NOW and loving all of God’s gifts and blessings even when they were dumped at my feet. In short. Not being happy and not living life to the fullest when I should’ve because I was too freaking worried about what other people think of me and what people say. They’ve DISCARDED me anyway! So there goes all that miserable work, down the drain.
Angel at the pearly gates: Huh. *scribbles note beside name* That was a bloody waste of life, wasn’t it.
Me: I know
Angel at the pearly gates: You could’ve reinvented yourself. Stop worrying and start living. Loved people unconditionally. Shower others around you with compassion while being true to yourself. Shrug off the people who disagree with you. Be true to your voice, answering the call and gift God gave you and taking that to the next level. Not pick fights over things that are so menial that if you wanted to scratch an itch you could’ve gone and helped the poor or something. Plenty of things on my list here on what you “could have done”…tsk tsk.
Me: ….*hangs head glumly*….I’ll go hide in that hole for a while before you call me kthxbai.
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had read some of your old and new blog and now u are shooting some person in here like Mr.R and Mr.D …the other Mr.C i do not know who the heck is this 3 person and what they had done and pissed u off.. i do not care why u so pissed off. Wrote that you are mature, but you are not, you are such a stubborn/dumb ass waiting a person ,making hint alot to a person that u like? or like David said, you always right and he’s wrong. Do you really think that everything you are correct/right? Lmao, who do you think you are Julie? yes, he is young but you are shooting someone that you never really use your brain. What you have? Golden smile makes any guy falls in love with u? I do not sense any mature from you after reading your blog post.
And as writen down Clinston is your pet bro? what is pet bro? animal? you also should use small letter to write any words to prevent any misunderstanding. as u said, no one is perfect and u are telling others that “You think you are all good all the while !” .. What about yourself? lmao…
Well, what you all post here is just making shame to you all. julie, if really like clinston said, no one is perfect..this is included you too, saw alot of picture of you.. you think you are perfect? gosh.. lmao. just like a TB ,non-mature, no boobs no ass… like what? guess it.. i knew you are pissed off now after reading my comment on you. You created this just for everyone to see and comment, so you dont mind if i tell you what you are now. Even i don’t know u.
If anyone does not like my way of talking . wanna fuck me in here? , com’on. LMAO….
@clins
dont ever u dare talk to me as if u knew me for years. u didnt know my full history, the list of ex-es that i had, the friends that i had.
u only knew me in the surface level, so dont go around judging and lecturing me just bcoz u heard it from some other friend of us and think u knew it all.
let me tell u i had 3 ex-es, and only 1 i couldnt be friend with coz she was so desperate till now, she couldnt let go, while the other two said i treated them well and regret they couldnt be with me, and till now we are still good friends.
what makes u think i dont understand women? how could u judge? how deep do u know me to begin with?
just bcoz u are good and alot ppl said u are good with woman, so what? dont come lecturing me like some pro coz i dont appreciate it when u tick me off like u are godlike better than me.
and yes ikseh is right. that is precisely what i was avoiding all the time. i hate such childlike, nuisance arguments to end off any friendship, but since it started and went till this deep, then there is no point saving it but to relay the message deep into that person’s brain. To MAKE THEM WAKE UP AND STOP FOOLING THEMSELVES, TO CHANGE AND TO STOP HURTING OTHERS IN FUTURE.
i dont know but you are the one says that you faces that problem and now u say good friends.
i now hear 2 different stories from the same story teller…
I think you totally dont understand them because when we talk about women.
you think what they are all wrong.. im not perfect.. but i know the basic already wrong.
and all women says to me you dont understand them at all.
i duwan to argue bro.. im sorry i said it too offensive…
then u have heard it from the wrong source. i have never told u anything and even if i did is because i’m being emotional that time.
stop trying to be like an angel when the things u said are poisonous.
sorry cant solve anything when u are purposely saying it and going in a circle again.
Oh dear lord I thought this has already ended. Okay I’ve been nice. I’ll still maintain my civility if I could, but…no I’m not going to apologize beforehand. Take it or leave it.
David,
Time to let go. For real this time. Why does it have to be YOUR job to change other people in the first place? It is just as childish to try and ram your point home into people’s minds. And this IS Julie’s blog. The fact that you’re continuously trying so hard to prove your point is becoming very, very stale.
LET IT GO. You’re seething, fuming and angry, because you felt insulted, yes. It doesn’t make it right whatever went on here with the accusations that were flung on both sides, the hateful words, the anger. I might not agree with Julie’s ways, but no, she will not have resorted to this if you had stopped and backed off gracefully earlier on. I believe the conversation between the two of you were at least civil at one point for you to realize she’s tired of this? She is the most subtle creature I know, and she will not have jumped if you did not set fire on her foot.
She was insulted with the dog, religion and father issue. No need to go to knowing about women here. In GENERAL. WHO in his/her right mind who value things like pets, family and religion, wouldn’t get offended when you say things about their beloved pet, their father, their religion? I’ve known Jules for all my life and even I NEVER go there. Who are you to her, to have said those things?
Let’s be specific.
When you tell someone “your pet is not the whole world mah” 1) You just insulted the way that person regards a pet, which has no longer become a pet, but a part of a family. Your assumption was your own to make, like suka hati la, but as silly and harmless as it sounds, to that person, it was insensitive. Pets DO become a part of the family, and some people go to great lengths taking care of them. Does it make them wrong? No! It’s how they view their lives, and must that be wrong as well?
“You’re not getting any younger. Must start serious already mah. Later be like my cousin and not married til late, how?”
1) That, to a WOMAN’s mind, is the same as saying to her, “You-serve-no-other-function-in-this-world-but-to-get-married-early-because-I-say-so”. Your god-given right in this world, which is your free will, your desire to create and to live a life that you have chosen, even if it means putting off marriage and having children until you are well and truly ready to accept that blessed role as wife/mother, MUST BE MADE AT THE WHIM OF A MAN.
Even if you did NOT mean that, it SOUNDED that way to a woman.
Note to men: We ARE that sensitive. Some girls, whose calling was to become wives/mothers earlier in life, were given that light EARLIER. Which is great for them! But is life soooooo mediocre and synchronized that every single woman has to go through all that at the same age range as well? Because others say that’s the way to do it? Whose law? Whose word? Individuality doesn’t count meh? Personal desires/ambitions don’t count?
“Don’t sound so Fu Chin”
“What, like your dad?”
1) Oho, man, you just set the flame right there. Nobody, and I mean nobody has the right to insult another person’s family member. Not their parents, especially. It showed your disrespect towards her father, hence your disrespect towards HER.
Nampak tak, the reaction of your words? Why it triggered Julie’s scorpion sting? Does she have to have a blazing, neon light sign above her head to tell you “You are crossing the line, bucko. Back off!” ? Apparently Ju, you probably DID need a neon sign. Remind me to get that for you on your next birthday
David,
You cannot, cannot force people into wanting to be friends with you, to agree with you, to like you. That comes naturally, or it doesn’t. If it doesn’t, to hell with it! There are so many people out there you could spend your energy getting to know and sharing your ideas with (and connect with even!), and you’re still here? Not only still here. You’re still trying to force your voice?
Why are you still here? The insults have been made. The damage is done. Brush it off! Walk away! Choose to be the wiser, more mature person (because that’s what you were trying for), and shrug it off. You’re shredding even more of your dignity SHOUTING to be heard in someone else’s blog!
Why are you still here?
There are 2 ways for you to go about this. Walk away. Forget about this. Why does it matter what anyone here said about you that you are so keen to fight back?
But, if you are the person who you’ve already proven yourself to be in this blog. Then I suppose we’ll be hearing another emotional tirade about how wrong it is for you to have been judged thusly when you have clearly, CLEARLY judged Julie as well.
And why am I butting my nose into this? Because the problem is so clear and simple, and this is annoying Julie, and Clinston too. And it’s starting to annoy me.
Yes, I don’t know you. But if you’re wondering (in case you’re wondering lah), WHY WHY this thing got blown up to massively time-wasteful proportions, it’s because of the things I’ve explained above.
*sighs*
If this continues, then I suggest dear friends, that we agree to disagree, end it here. Gosh the sun is too shiny out there for this.
@ikseh
thanks for being specific. Now I understand what was said and viewed as.
sorry for those words that have offended julie.
sorry if I had said anything wrong to anyone here. I apologize for not recalling the first damage that was done.
i shall walk out of this now. goodbye.
@ comment #13
pissed? not at all. FKJ, i know who u are and i am so amused~! LOL so amusing to see ppl who actually vowed their last goodbye to me, cutting off contact with me… but still stalking me on my blog. hiding behind a lame nickname some more, aiyo. if u dun like it, stop reading it! simple as that. can’t even keep to ur own word?
did i mention at all that i’m perfect? nope, never!
do i know that i look like TB? sure i do, i’ve been TB all my life, duh.
do i care for ur insults over my physical appearance? fuck it, this is the real ME that i love.
one thing that YOU should know about me is, step on my tail once, i step on yours 3 times. u messed with the wrong person, i swear one day karma will bite u in the ass. u know what u did, may it haunt u forever in nightmare.
now, leave me and my blog alone, and please go play far far.
Wow, now you are defending yourself when ‘others’ ppl saying about you.Haha who need to learn let go Julie? U beg me 3 times not to breakup last time , and gave u 2 times chances, I must admit that you are wasting my time lol, so suprise that you’re words now are different as before. But it’s ok lol. I miss you? WahaHa, who u think u are? If I did , I won’t find other gf as u said I’m coolblooded lol, what about u? All the while missing the Ex guy huh? hahaha wah karma woh , u think I care? Lol I’m living happily now. I won’t bother ur blog if I’m free cause its not interesting for me though.I thought it was interesting when my friend told me about it.one thing u have to make it clear, who starts this in facebook. I’m blocking you to see my wallpost and u start complaining I’m heartless? Come on, you had fantasy mine do ya, make it clear , yes , I block you so?you just nobody to me coz we already broke up.is that any logic I can’t block u from seeing my post in fb? Haha, really wanna step on me 3 time meh?? Or u really don’t know how to let go and want to revenge on me? Haha or maybe u the one missing me , can’t let go me that’s why u wanna revenge?too bad,you don’t have that chance.and yes, you are failed! ^_^ oh last thing, I don’t mind to send my wedding invitation card if you want ? I got everything now, won’t free to bother u too. Oh ya..When the time we break up you told me ur ex bf wanna get back to u but why now u are seems like worrying?he didn’t call u? Last, wish u can get his call soon .cheers girl . Good night.
just read FKJ post..
i feel for him.. maybe it’s time u feel for others too. get to understand what a guy’s ego is and it’ll save u much trouble.
not to threaten u here, is just how we men work. If it’s not for ikseh that told me in detail everything that i said wrong (or accidently said wrong in fact)… then i wouldn’t have known u have kept it so deeply wounded in ur heart.
people do say wrong things at times, sometimes without them knowing..
jules jules.. be yourself if you are so happy too… but know that ppl like us cant continue the path that u thread.
may u be who u wanna be and find that someone in life that could survive it with u. Really even being a friend I find it too difficult to understand you. Not being offensive, but dont u think u could be better?
take care. end from me.
Oh forget to answer what u will said after my first comment.. Why u beg me for chance not to break up? my answer : 1st time : ioi mall “smoking” u knew that. 2nd. Food from my mother and u can’t finish cause your picky and nvr cleanup after the meal (maybe you trying to clean,I understand) yes this is 2nd.3rd I forgot and the last is end up. Well , u must be wanna say I had many bad image for u too but how bad am I, at least I did not show to ur parents. Not like you. My answer again : yeah, I had bad temper and i can even more bad, so what? I told u many times to let go, u are the one can’t do it. Am I right? If I were wrong, you will not SMS to my Handphone And tell me just a word “fcking hate you” . And your fcking hate me is just because I blocked you to see my post in facebook AFTER we breakup. Read carefully .. Is after breakup. I silence but then you start the mess again with me by deleting my facebook including some of my friend and talking about me. I’m not so free to entertaint all this shit from u,keeping 3 person of my friend just to let them inform me what u had done ?aiya, I don’t care what you wanna say or do la.u like ok? U win. U r perfect. U r correct.ur blog ur world. I’m glad if you are fucking hate me so u will be happy! Me n my friend will not bother ur blog anymore too.. 88
-THE END-
For one, no matter how you look at it… all at fault… honestly. so move on ya’ll~ there are bigger and better things out there… look at me, I had bad ones too, ones that stole everything from me and left.. but move on… no point looking back.. so to everyone commenting, those involved and those who care, we shall just move on and watch Inception!!!! Heard it’s a really good movie^^
Btw.. Ikseh, You rawk~~~~!~!!
awww thank you May Ling
LOLX LOLX and still LOLX….
Sorry Jules jie but this is just darn funny. I mean of all things said and done, everyone have their right to actually say or do what they want but over here when i ran through all the comments it just plain sad to see that alot of people really love to admit something directly or even get pissed off about things said about though haven’t put any name specifically.
And please take this into count that I am not starting another fire nor shooting anyone.
But then thinking about how it’s all going, so much for 1 saying this is all over, the other claiming how men are and etc. It’s just plain funny. Life is never easy and everyone goes through a learning curve and same goes to me. I’ve made alot of mistakes but still those who really understand me by being with me for who I am without any other hidden agenda always corrected me and I’ve learned from it.
About guys, not all are egoistic maniacs. I have ego too but am bold enough to say that mine is never over the limit. I always tend to listen, digest and react to what ever comments that are given towards me.
The funniest part was to actually to see comments as if people are so great. LMFAO! Chill guys. I mean I may know some of you guys or I might not so what? I too have people writing or talking bad about me too that doesn’t mean I have to appear there and make things even worst right?
Yes Jules Jie did write bout some people but that doesn’t mean you’ve got to come here and suddenly everyone pointing fingers here and there. Just forgive and forget. If can’t forget why not open a blog or anything and say whatever you want to say and that’s it. That way it saves alot of time and energy of throwing your hatred here and there.
I supose that would’ve been better. But since all is already done, why not just go your own way and though the “beef” with each other might not be done yet. Just going your own way would help, no?
Again, guys no offense was meant to anyone here. Hope we all could learn from this and better ourselves. Hope all is well…
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